Hi, I’m Natalie, or as most people know me, NatNat Your Doula

I’m a certified birth doula, a mother of two wonderful daughters aged 8 and 27, and a

proud grandmother of two beautiful grandchildren whose home births I was honoured to

witness and support.

Those moments changed my life and reminded me just how sacred birth can be when a

woman feels safe, respected, and surrounded by love.

I’m originally from North West London, where I grew up, and I set up home in Swindon,

Wiltshire around 17 years ago. I’m fortunate to still have my family home in London, and I often

set up camp there when I’m on call for families across the city.

My journey into birth work began after experiencing firsthand how disempowering the maternity system can feel. I know what it’s like to feel unheard or uncertain, and that’s why I’m so passionate about helping families approach birth from a place of confidence, knowledge, and trust in their own bodies.

As your doula, my role is to hold space for you, offering calm presence, emotional reassurance, physical comfort, and evidence-based information so you can make choices that feel right for you. I support every family with unconditional care, whether you’re preparing for your first baby or growing your family.

I home educate my youngest daughter, and she often joins me at some sessions as part of her learning. She’s grown up surrounded by birth stories and has even witnessed unassisted births herself, learning firsthand about the beauty and strength of women in birth.

I’m lucky to have a large family and strong support network, which allows me the flexibility to support families both locally and further afield, including in-person and virtual support for births and postpartum care.

I believe birth is not something to be managed but something to be experienced with presence, power, and love. You already have everything you need within you; I’m simply there to remind you of that.

When I’m not supporting families, I’m usually spending time with my daughters and grandchildren, travelling somewhere hot for a beach holiday, hanging out with other birth workers, or taking time out just for myself.

If you’re looking for a doula who will listen, advocate, and stand beside you every step of the way, I’d love to connect.

📩 Contact me or reach out on Instagram or Facebook @natnatyourdoula

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Advocacy as a When Push Comes To Shove Certified Natural Birth Practitioner

When Push Comes To Shove NatNatYour Doula

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Navigating the maternity system can often feel overwhelming, but I am here to help you through it.

As a certified pregnancy and birth advocate with When Push Comes To Shove, I have received specialized training in holistic maternity care and advocacy, allowing me to provide the support you need to make informed decisions about your pregnancy, birth, and postpartum care.

Advocacy is about ensuring your voice is heard and your wishes are respected, especially when it comes to medical decisions and your birth plan.

When Push Comes To Shove is the world’s first holistic maternity care organisation, founded by Nikita Stark. Their focus is on empowering women and supporting them to advocate for themselves, ensuring they have access to the information and support they need throughout their journey.

This approach is integrated into my work as a doula, where I guide you to become empowered in your birth choices—whether you're working alongside maternity services or choosing a different path.

As a certified doula with When Push Comes To Shove, I am equipped to support you in various scenarios where advocacy may be needed.

Here are a few examples of how I can help:

1. Birth Plan Preferences

If you have a vision for your birth, whether it’s opting for a natural or drug-free birth, or avoiding certain interventions, I can help ensure your preferences are respected and communicated to your medical team. I’ll assist you in advocating for your choices, even when the hospital’s protocols might not align with your birth plan.

2. Interventions During Labour

If you're offered or pressured to accept interventions like an epidural, induction, or cesarean section, I will help you make an informed decision that aligns with your birth goals. I’ll assist in asking the right questions to understand why a certain intervention is being recommended and if it’s truly necessary for your health and the health of your baby.

3. Pain Management Options

I can help you explore all your pain management options—whether you prefer natural techniques or medical pain relief—and ensure you feel confident and informed in your choice. I will advocate for your needs, ensuring you’re not pressured into making a decision you're not comfortable with.

4. Postpartum Care

If you feel that your postpartum care, such as breastfeeding support or mental health care, is not being addressed, I’ll advocate on your behalf to ensure your concerns are heard and that you receive the care and support you need during the early days of motherhood.

5. Respect for Cultural or Religious Beliefs

If you have cultural or religious preferences that influence your care, I will help ensure they are respected by the medical team and incorporate them into your birth plan where possible.

6. Unexpected Medical Complications

Should complications arise during labour or birth, I will help you understand the options presented to you, ensuring you’re making informed decisions that are in line with your values. I’ll be there to advocate for you in times when you need extra support to process complex medical information.

7. Communication Barriers

If you face language barriers or difficulty communicating your needs or understanding the information being shared with you, I can bridge that gap, ensuring your wishes are understood and respected.

8. Support During Hospital or Birth Centre Procedures

During routine procedures, I’ll ensure you’re informed about what’s happening, that your consent is obtained, and that your autonomy is respected at every stage of the process.

By being trained through When Push Comes To Shove, I am equipped with the knowledge and tools to provide this level of advocacy. I am here to ensure that you feel confident, supported, and empowered in your choices, whether you are in a hospital, birthing centre, or at home.
My goal is to make sure that your voice is heard, your needs are met, and that you have the birth experience you deserve.